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[Azrael]

Karl, I do not feel it is appropriate that you take a personal e-mail, fom
someone who is obviously trying to solve a problem off the list, and post it
here merely to air out the differences between you two, An effort was
obviously being made to keep this a private matter between her and you, and
I have been on this list for some of the more annoying flame wars between
folks doing this very thing. I dont disagree with what you said or what
Kayleigh said..just that she responded to you privately..and you chose to
post the reply to the list with the apparent hope of making sure as many
people as possible know about the dispute between you two. I am not taking
sides in this, nor will I in any other personal dispute, but what you did
was wrong and in my opinion you should apologize. I realize my opinion
carries little weight and will amost certainly be dismissed without a
thought, but some things you just cant let slide.
____________________________________________________________________________
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Try to remember that your enemy is never a villian in his own eyes, and
keeping this in mind it may be possible to find a way to make them your
friend. And if not, then kill them quickly, and without hate.

Ashril
Azrael at cyber-wizard.com





> >From: PotterKD at aol.com
> >Date: Thu, 7 Jan 1999 11:29:47 EST
> >To: apophysis at hotmail.com
> >Subject: note
> >
> >Sir - forgive me if I have offended you in some way.  It appears that
> you have
> >some personal beef with me.
>
> i don't have any thing against you, i just didn't like the way you
> phrased your comment to me. it was curt and belittling. hence the reason
> for my answer.
>
>   We all have our ways of doing thing. This is >mine.......
>
> you might want to think your statements thru and how they will be
> received before you answer. it may save a lot of hurt feelings.
>
> >In addition, It has come to my attention that the shire of Mendersham
> is not
> >prepared to take on this responsibility in hosting this event.
>
> if it's a kingdom thing, why can't kingdom or some other large group
> sponsor it? you're a baronese, why don't you put it on? or your group?
>
>   Maybe you
> >should volunteer another location
>
> abilene is centrally located. everybody on the edges get to travel the
> same distance.
>
>  inquire on "free" room and board/travil
> >to attend a practice.
> >
>
> you can only bum a ride or room and broad so many times before people
> start hating hearing you want to go some where. then they start talking.
> and they will talk. that's the reason for the distance limit.
>
> >
> >HE Kayleigh Drake
> >
>
> i know you mailed me privatly, but i chose to answer you publicly so all
> can see what i wrote and why. if not for the fact some one would start
> talking how rude i was to you, i would have answered you privatly. i
> don't care if people talk bad about me, as long as i earn it. and i'm
> sure some will talk of this any way.
>
> km
>
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