[Ansteorra] RE: scadian bad-press day ..

[AuroraeB at aol.com]

In a message dated 11/17/03 10:45:53 AM Central Standard Time, 
Carolyn.Young at goodmanmfg.com writes:

> Tracy,
> 
> Since neither you nor I am involved with the group or individual concerned,
> your reticence is understandable and your reply to that group is well put,
> but please keep in mind that sometimes doing the right thing will force you
> outside of your *comfort zone*.   
> 

Well, at this point and place in my life, I have decided that remaining in my 
comfort zone is more important than doing "the right thing". Not necessarily 
something I am proud of, but something I am honest about.  I simply do not 
have the physical or emotional strength to allow myself to become involved in 
unnecessary conflict, drama, or stress at this time.  I have to reserve it all 
for myself. 

If I weren't ill, it would be another story.  By nature I am conflict 
avoidant, but I do have a point where I decide to speak up. However, this was one of 
those times where taking care of myself and keeping out of a stressful 
situation was more important. Thankfully the busybody from the scrapbook board felt 
no need to continue the e-mail discussion and the thread on the webboard died a 
quick death and is now buried in the archives.  Where it belongs.  Why it was 
even brought up there, I have no idea.  Just bored people needing to stir the 
pot and whip up some drama and upset to entertain themselves with I suppose.  
Trying to bait somebody involved in the SCA into getting sucked into their 
game.  I'm just happy nobody took the bait.

Tracy