[Ansteorra] Youth Collegiums
DonnelShaw at aol.com
DonnelShaw at aol.com
Wed Jan 23 14:29:18 PST 2008
In a message dated 1/23/2008 10:04:42 AM Central Standard Time,
kaitlan_kiera at yahoo.com writes:
Well as my children got to be teens discipline could fly out the window..
they are bigger than I am... so I found that object humiliation in front of
their friends and peers worked wonders... works for adults too.
And in the end who does it hurt the most the adult or the child? You want a
system where the parent learns and the child gets to keep participating and
learn as well. When you go to humiliate the adult and it is the child that
ends up quietly being humiliated as well and the backlash will have a longer
effect than intended. There may be some kind of problem you are not aware of
that keeps the parent and they are late. It is better to work with them then
against them because the bottom line is that the whole effort is for the child's
benefit not the adults.
Donnel
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