Dear Folks especially Chass
I want to thank everyone for the impute. I really want to those you that seem to be looking for solutions. I was very upset and didn't see any hope and now I do. I see you acting like real Anstoerrans. 
Chass and all of us that have problems.   Everybody please contact me off the list. As someone that has had problems with my heart I found my self unable to get to the List field and my chair. Many people passed me and did nothing. Finally I stopped this young lady and she ran off to tell the people with the carts. All in All I was there for an hour. My point is not it took so long, but it took so long because I didn't ask. In the everyday world people are taught not to impose themselves on others. Because of that it is important to speak up if you need help. This is even true with help at events. In the past we could sit there and look in distress, but now we need to talk to individuals. 
Duchess Willow de Wisp