[Bryn-gwlad] Newcomers and Introductions

[Heather J Pierce]

I haven't been able to play much the last two years but still lurk on the list. I somehow felt the need to put forth my two cents on this:

There are indeed extroverts (or introverts who have learned better), but in my experience the majority of people are still loathe to make themselves seen and heard as a newbie.

**I like the idea of calling for newcomers during announcements at Tues and Sun meetings, but I would cover both bases. Ask first if anyone is new that wants to introduce themselves, or ask a question. Then, after that, re introduce the Hospitaler, and the deputy, or whomever is responsible for newcomers that evening and say 'This is so and so, if you are new and too shy to speak up, THIS is the person you need to find for a more private introduction.'**

I was a newcomer to this barony not so long ago. I am a shy person that has learned that I won't get anywhere unless I speak up. There were quite a few local members that were friendly and welcoming to me. I always had a place to camp and to eat at events. This, like any organization can be 'cliquish'. Just try to remember to 'think outside your own box'. Taking five minutes to explain something to a newbie can make all the difference.

I want to say a special thanks to Don Dore for sitting beside me and explaining things through my first court at Candlemas 2002. Court can be LONG and BORING if you don't know anyone or the significance of what is going on. Having a play-by-play through my first court made me feel 'in the know' and went a LONG way to make me feel welcome and a part of the local group. Thanks!!

~Rose
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