ES - Precedence

Arabella de Montacute ladyarabella at
Wed May 27 12:23:02 PDT 1998

lolroflmao - Arabella

>From: "Axel , Jeanmaire & Diane Remes" <remes at>
>To: <elfsea at Ansteorra.ORG>
>Subject: Re: ES - Precedence
>Date: Wed, 27 May 1998 12:55:34 -0500
>Reply-To: elfsea at Ansteorra.ORG
>As others have said, I've never felt insulted by someone omitting my 
>or calling me "My Lady" instead.  If I cared terribly I would have said
>something.  In many ways I am the worst offender, and poor Zara Zina is
>lucky if I don't call her Vicki at events - truly the WORST faux pas.  
I can
>hardly call the kettle black on this one.
>From: Arabella de Montacute <ladyarabella at>
>>>As to the, what do you call someone with multiple titles, that one 
>>>awkward, and various peers have different preferences.  I prefer to 
>>>called Mistress if I'm functioning as a Laurel (like when I was 
>>>Frugal Garb Comp. at Springfaire)
>>I usually introduce you to others as Mistress, especially when they 
>>asking about garb and the time period you do so well.
>>and Your Excellency when I'm wearing my
>>>coronet.  I dont' usually expect my friends to use titles, except 
>>>formal conditions, like in court.
>>I didn't know you felt that way, I wish you had said something 
>I don't wear it very often, either.
>>But that gets back to that familiar thing I was talking about.
>>(Arabella logs her file folder brain to call Jeanmaire, Her 
>>when she has her hat on) It's really hard when you have a close friend
>>who has a hat to remember they have a title and may like to be called 
>>such a way.
>>On the other hand, I don't remember you introducing yourself as 
>>or Her Excellency during the Thunder Buns Competition.  LOL!!!! 
>>have been to proper I guess!  HEHEHEHEHEHE!
>I almost never introduce myself in that way when I'm sober, why should 
I do
>it when I'm toasted out of my mind?  As for judging the competition, I 
>seldom had so much fun judging so much talent.  Truly the Arts & 
Sciences in
>this kingdom have reached a new high.  (Or a new low.)
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