[Elfsea] need to hire housecleaning help

[Matthew G. Saroff]

> In a message dated 8/4/01 8:36:34 AM Central Daylight Time, AerynGeil at aol.com
> writes:
>
>
> > Or there is turn about
> >
> > Does the obnoxious neighbor have pets? Does the obnoxious neighbor keep his
> > trees near power poles trimmed, How is the obnoxious neighbor at following
> > city ordinances for the upkeep of his property? Does the obnoxious neighbor
> > look like the person featured on the most recent episode of America's most
> > wanted?
> >
>
> Then you are doing the very thing this other person is and are no better. And
> it can cause a bad problem. Do you really want to get into a war like this or
> put your efforts in resolving the problem.
	There are some questions that need to be asked before
one shoots back:
* What is the source of the hostility?
* Can it be resolved?
	If it's something as simple as mowing the lawn, get the
lawn mowed.
	You don't want to be in the position of the parents who
had a kid who drew on a neighbor's driveway with chalk, and in
response the neighbor put the kids name and phone out as
a phone sex line on the net.
	Have you ever talked directly with the neighbor about
and asked what the problem was?

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Matthew G. Saroff
msaroff at pobox.com