[Elfsea] Parks and such

[Jane Sitton]

I have to agree with Lady Innes on this.  I once had to walk late at night,
in the cold, through Diamond Hill wearing my Northside letter jacket.  Talk
about inviting trouble!  But I walked with my head up, didn't act nervous
(despite being terrified), and acted as if I belonged, and despite a few
"you don't belong here" looks from a couple of guys we affectionately called
"vatos", I made it home safe and sound.  Do not act like a victim, and you
won't be perceived as one.

Madelina

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From: Ldyinnes at aol.com [mailto:Ldyinnes at aol.com]
Sent: Wednesday, November 14, 2001 6:16 PM
To: elfsea at ansteorra.org
Subject: Re: [Elfsea] Parks and such


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You aare going to find "skanky" people everywhere.  A lot of time if you
simply smile a small smile and nod to them they then go away.

I have been to Trinity park many times both in daylight and after dark and
never had a problem.  as far as someone being left there alone.  Well do we
ever leave anyone alone.  a lot of people pull out at the same time.  and if
anyone is nervous they can ask someone to escort them from the park.  by
following them in their car.

I have found many times that to avoid problems, dont invite them by showing
that you are scared or nervous.  In other words,  walk confidently, show
that you have courage, be aware of all your surroundings at all times and
you will be left alone.   <snip>