FWD: [Elfsea] What makes Life Good in Elfsea?
crandall at elfsea.net
Wed Jan 21 09:48:06 PST 2004
Alright, boys and girls. It is time again for the Crandall ranting club.
I am not being seen too much as work and weekends seem to be the same thing, but what I am hearing from those who call themselves friends and family make some of the Norse blood feuds seem calm.
And so I looked back into some older messages to find something that makes sense. I thought, at first of sending out messages that were sent during the Hat Race(s). But then it might be construed as attacking specific people, and that is just what I do not want to happen.
Therefore, after mentioning to Stella that I might resend her thoughts on this, I wish all to read and hopefully think about what whe had to say. Maybe we can get some work done within our own Barony (including the Shires) and work out our family problems without spreading the hateful stories and viscious rumours.
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From: "Estella Flather" <eflather at flash.net>
Reply-To: elfsea at ansteorra.org
Date: Wed, 30 Apr 2003 11:01:47 -0500
Greetings from HE Mistress Stella-
I feel that this is a time when we need to remind ourselves of what we have done in the past to make life good in Elfsea and to try to help support each other.
1. If you have a problem with a person, you need to talk to that person.
2. If you can't resolve the problem, ask someone to moderate a discussion to try to fix the problem.
3. If someone tells you bad stuff about someone else say "Have you talked to that person?" People can't correct a problem if they don't know what the problem is.
4. If you volunteer to do something, make sure it gets done.
5. If you are having trouble with something you volunteered to do, ask for help, sooner rather than later.
We don't want to set people up to fail, we want to support people. If you want clarification of any of the points above, please come talk to me.
If you are not part of the solution you are part of the problem.
Lead, follow, or get out of the way!
In service, HE Stella, AKE, Azure Grail.
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