[NR] Lighten up and Where has all the fun gone.

[Angus Mac]

what he said

Angus
--- Brown Chass <dwarvenhome at yahoo.com> wrote:
> Ok I am writeing this email in defense of myself. I
> am
> sick of haveing to defend myself and on public
> lists.
> If I have offended anyone I do apologize and If I
> seem
> "Contraversial" it is because I wont let people walk
> all over me. Now things have come down to the point
> where someone I need to be able to get ahold of is
> blocking me from emailing over this stupid thing
> with
> my signature. We are supposed to be mature adults
> here.. the sca is supposed to be fun not some place
> to
> hunt for excuses to persecute and jump all over
> someone. I have been in the sca for 10 years and
> have
> seen this off and on for that amount of time but it
> has gotten worse in the last 6 months to a year here
> in ansteorra. MY signature was ment as a joke
> between
> me and several pagans who are friends. It has been
> there since i opened the account. Now if you are so
> sensative that my little sig bothers you then you
> dont
> need to say... watch heavy weapons fighting for it
> is
> violent.... or go to events cause there is drinking
> at
> most of them... or conversations that may enflame
> carouseing. I was informed that most of the populace
> of the north doesnt like me... Ohh who are you? Let
> me
> know and tell me y,.,,, if it is because of my sig I
> do feel for you because you musnt have any friends
> for
> people say stupid things. We come into the SCA to
> have
> fun and to act as if we are in the time period our
> character and etc from. We are not here to find
> trivial things and jump people cause we can. I try
> to
> go around and make friends and thought I had quite a
> few in the northern region as well as a few in other
> regions. I love to go to the fireside gela's and get
> to know others. I hide nothing in who I am and dont
> expect anyone else to either. I dont mean to come
> off
> as rude, beligerent, disrespectful, contraversial
> etc.. I say things like i see them. I dont call down
> a
> person and rag them out over their religion or tag
> lines. I have better things to do.. and alot better
> than defending myself. Before you decide you dont
> like
> me etc.. at least meet me and then come to a
> educated
> deduction before you decide.. "Well I dont like him
> he
> is too honest". Now I am not saying that everyone is
> saying these things... actually i have only had 4
> people online and one via phone complaining. I have
> had quite a few people defend me and tell me they
> liked my sig. If they would have came to me and said
> nicely that they didnt like it etc I may have
> changed
> it.. attack me and I fight back. I was also told
> "This
> will ruin your SCA career" Uhhh last I checked this
> is
> a game... not a livelyhood.. it is ment to be fun.
> When I first started a person could have fun and not
> be judged for every little action. We would sit
> around
> the fire and enjoy each others company, we would
> sing
> and dance and carouse. People got mad that is the
> way
> with people but they got over it and moved on
> instead
> of holding grudges and trying to play... "Power
> games". Shesh I see enough of that in real life I
> dont
> wanna see it here as well. People need to put the
> enjoyment back in the game instead of trying to kill
> the dream in others because "They are too
> contraversial". I will put this to rest now and if
> you
> got a gripe, greevance or complaint about me write
> me
> not the list and we will hash it out. I am a open
> person and have nothing to hide. On this list my ICQ
> #
> as well as my email address... write me msg me
> etc...
> I will answer. Just dont judge me until you get to
> know me. This letter was not written to get a "Rise
> out of anyone" or to encourage fighting in the lists
> as I have been accused of.
>
>
> Chass
>
> =====
> Get a Taste for Religion... Lick a witch
> ICQ # 2776047
>
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