[Northkeep] Lighten up and Where has all the fun gone.

[Riney, Loralei]

Thanks honey.....yes we did see many things....ya'll taught me too ya
know...that is the secret to a good relationship..be it between friends,
laurels/apprentices; knights/squires; pelicans/protégés; older to younger
siblings etc...

One is seen as the teacher and the other the student...however...in a
genuine fruitful relationship of any type ....many times the students have
much to offer and teach the teacher...it is necessary for the teacher to see
this, realize it and be open to the process....It is also the same amongst
members of shires, baronies, cantons...the "older" ( been there longer)
members are teachers for the new arrivals..be they newbies or re-located
members...ya gotta remember that most people have something to offer.
sometimes you have to weed thru the other BS to see it....but you can learn
form the youngest as well....

-----Original Message-----BlakHawk [blakhawk at blakhawk.cjb.net]
From: BlakHawk [mailto:blakhawk at blakhawk.cjb.net]
Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2001 7:40 AM
To: northkeep at ansteorra.org
Subject: Re: [Northkeep] Lighten up and Where has all the fun gone.


Momma B...
You will ALWAYS Be that to those of Us that you brought up in Society... :)
You have always been someone that I looked up to in the Society. Although
there were times that we had to take our butt chewings from you for being
stupid... we all learned from it and grew closer as a family. Even though
you are wayyyyyyyyyyyyy the hell out there in no man's land when they talk
about Lann... I always smile thinking about the times we shared as a FAMILY.
(Holding our kids at their first events, just weeks after they were born.)



----- Original Message -----
From: "Riney, Loralei" <Loralei.Riney at bannerhealth.com>
To: <northkeep at ansteorra.org>
Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2001 9:25 AM
Subject: RE: [Northkeep] Lighten up and Where has all the fun gone.


> Vivat...one thing i would say is this...the SCA is a family..what type of
> family, how close knit, etc...is what YOU make of it....a rule of thumb i
> have used over the years....is what i said or did going to impact someone
to
> the extent that 5-10 years from now they will still hold it as close as
they
> do now ( as either a good feeling or a bad feeling) I would hope that the
> good things, the hugs, the smiles, the demo pulled off at the last minute,
> the saving a tent from the storms at Marlow,  the lessons on rapier field
> etc..are the things that remain....we have to remember that sometimes the
> things are really not so important as to disband or distance us from our
> friends or family...tho they may be hurtful or irritating or seen as
stupid
> or mean....how long do these really last... Just as in mundane
> families....yes one of our "relative" may piss us off or upset us....but
> wait...it depends on the day or the week....eventually another "relative"
> steps up and makes us forget what the other one did.......it all comes
> round....
>
> Lann
>


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