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<p class=MsoPlainText><font size=2 face="Courier New"><span style='font-size:
10.0pt'>Hi all,<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoPlainText><font size=2 face="Courier New"><span style='font-size:
10.0pt'> I have been away for a while, but coming home and finding all of
the Hoot'n'nanny that is currently going on was to say the least a shock.
While I do not agree with, nor condone what is in essence petty bickering and arguing
between individuals on this list, if we manage to say to people "you can
not decry something that you feel is wrong", be it a situation, leadership
or whatever, then all we become is a group of artificially sweet people who
will not get any resolution to any type of concern/conflict or situation.
Because people are people, we are wont to disagree on occasion or just
"speak our minds" as it were. The key is being able to do this
in a <u>civilized</u> manner sans insults, rudeness and just plain mean-spiritedness.
If you have strong feelings regarding an individual(s), by all means do your
dead-level best to resolve it privately. Voicing disappointment with
actions, or lack thereof, or situations in general, need to be said, but in a <u>Civil
Manner</u>.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoPlainText><font size=2 face="Courier New"><span style='font-size:
10.0pt'>We can all communicate in that manner if we just give it an honest try.
<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoPlainText><font size=2 face="Courier New"><span style='font-size:
10.0pt'>Just my 2 shekels’ worth, HE Jalali of <st1:City w:st="on"><st1:place
w:st="on">Salamis</st1:place></st1:City>, OL<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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