SC - How valuable is your spouse?

[Louise Sugar]

Once in a while you read something that makes you stop and think and perhaps
consider your own situation.  This is one of those once in a whiles.

Louise




This is a story by  Patricia McGerr, called  Johnny Lingo's Eight Cow Wife.
  Published in Christian Reader, May-June, 1997

     "When I sailed to Kiniwata, an island in the Pacific, I took along a
notebook. After I got back, it was filled with descriptions of flora and
fauna, native customs and costumes.  But the only note that still interests
me is the one that says: "Johnny Lingo gave eight cows to Sarita's father."
     And I don't need to have it in writing. I'm reminded of it every time I
see a woman belittling her husband or a wife withering under her husband's
scorn.  I want to say to them,  "You should know why Johnny Lingo paid eight
cows for his wife."
     Johnny Lingo wasn't exactly his name. But that's what Shenkin, the
manager of the guest house on Kiniwata, called him.  Shenkin was from
Chicago
and had a habit of Americanizing the names of the islanders. But Johnny was
mentioned by many people  in many connections.  If I wanted to spend  a few
days on the neighboring island of Nurabandi, Johnny Lingo could put me up.
If
I wanted  to fish, he could show me where the fish were biting best.  If it
was pearls I sought, he would bring me the
best buys.  The people of Kiniwata all spoke highly of Johnny Lingo. Yet
when
they spoke they smiled, and the smiles were slightly mocking.
     "Get Johnny Lingo to help you find what you want, and let him do the
bargaining," advised Shenkin.  "Johnny knows how to make a deal."
     "Johnny Lingo!" A boy seated nearby hooted the name and rocked with
laughter.
     "What goes on?" I demanded.  "Everybody tells me to get in touch with
Johnny Lingo and then breaks up. Let me in on the joke."
     "Oh, the people like to laugh," Shenkin said, shrugging. "Johnny's the
brightest, the strongest young man in the islands. And for his age the
richest."
     "But if he's all you say, what is there to laugh about?"
     "Only one thing.  Five months ago at the fall festival, Johnny came to
Kiniwata and found himself a wife.  He paid her father eight cows!"
     I knew enough about island customs to be impressed. Two or three cows
would buy a fair-to-middling wife, four or five a highly satisfactory one.
     "Eight cows!" I said.  "She must have beauty that takes your breath
away."
     "She's not ugly," he conceded and smiled a little.  "But the kindest
could only call Sarita plain.  Sam Karoo, her father, was afraid she'd be
left on his hands."
     "But then he got eight cows for her?  Isn't that extraordinary?
     "Never been paid before."
     "Yet you call Johnny's wife plain?"
     "I said it would be kindness to call her plain. She was skinny. She
walked with her shoulders hunched and her head ducked. She was scared of her
own shadow."
     "Well," I said, "I guess there's just no accounting for love."
     "True enough," agreed the man. "And that's why the villagers grin when
they talk about Johnny.  They get special satisfaction from the fact that
the
sharpest trader in the islands was bested by dull old  Sam Karoo."
     "But  how?"
     "No one knows and everyone wonders. All the cousins were urging Sam to
ask for three cows and hold out for two until he was sure Johnny's pay only
one.  Then Johnny came to Sam Karoo and said,  "Father of Sarita, I offer
eight cows for your daughter."
     "Eight cows," I murmured.  "I'd like to meet this Johnny Lingo."
     I wanted fish, I wanted pearls. So the next afternoon I beached my boat
at Nurabandi. And I noticed as I asked directions to Johnny's house that his
name brought no sly smile to the lips of his fellow Nurabandians. And when I
met the slim, serious young man, when he welcomed me with grace to his home,
I was glad that from his own people he had respect unmingled with mockery.
We
sat in his house and talked. Then he asked, "You have come here from
Kiniwata?"
     "Yes."
     "They speak of me on the island?"
     "They say there's nothing I might want that you can't help me get."
     He smiled gently, "My wife is from Kiniwata."
     "Yes, I know"
     "They speak of her?"
     "A little."
     "What do they say?"
     "Why just..."  The question caught me off balance. "They told me you
were married at festival time."
     "Nothing more?"  The curve of his eyebrows told me he knew there had to
be more.
     "They also say the marriage settlement was eight cows."  I paused.
"They
wonder why>"
     "They ask that?"  His eyes lighted with pleasure.  "Everyone in
Kiniwata
knows about the eight cows?"
     I nodded.
     "And in Nurabandi everyone knows it,too."  His chest expanded with
satisfaction.  "Always and forever, when they speak of marriage settlements,
it will be remembered that Johnny Lingo paid eight cows for Sarita."
     So that's the answer, I thought, vanity.
     And then I saw her. I watched her enter the room to place flowers on
the
table. She stood still a moment to smile at the young man beside me.   Then
she went swiftly out again.  She was the most beautiful woman I have ever
seen.  The lift of her shoulders,  the tilt of her chin, the sparkle of her
eyes all spelled a pride to which no one could deny her the right.
     I turned back to Johnny Lingo and found him looking at me.
     "You admire her?"  he murmured.
     "She...she's glorious. But she's not Sarita from Kiniwata," I said.
     "There's only one Sarita.  Perhaps she does not look the way they say
she looked in Kiniwata."
     "She doesn't. I heard she was homely. They all make fun of you because
you let you let yourself be cheated by Sam Karoo."
     "You think eight cows were too many?"  A smile slid over his lips.
     "No. But how can she be so different?"
     "Do you ever think," he asked, "what it must mean to a woman to know
that her husband has settled on the lowest price for which she can be
bought?
And then later, when the women talk, they boast of what their husbands paid

for them.  One says four cows, another maybe six.  How does she feel, the
woman who was sold for one or two?  This could not happen to my Sarita."
     "Then you did this just to make your wife happy?"
     "I wanted Sarita to be happy, yes. But I wanted more than that. You say
she is different. That is true.  Many things can change a woman. Things that
happen inside, thing that happen outside. But the thing that matters most is
what she thinks about herself.  In Kiniwata, Sarita believed she was worth
nothing.  Now she knows she is worth more than any other woman in the
islands."
     "Then you wanted...."
     "I wanted to marry Sarita. I loved her and no other woman.
     "But....:  I was close to understanding.
     "But," he finished softly, " I wanted an eight-cow wife."

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