I guess notes from Mother-in-laws, Mother of the Brides and Brides themselves are acceptable. Rayne (I'll save you some Buffalo Meat for NEXT Pennsic) In a message dated 3/16/00 9:10:01 AM Central Standard Time, LrdRas at aol.com writes: << Since my mundane wedding is occurring during Pennsic , I will be missing my first Pennsic in 17 years. :-( Ras >>