[Ansteorra] History/Enculturation/Cliquishness....

[Harry Bilings]

The way I handle things when a lady refused help is to tell her that I did
not offer becouse she could not carry what she had but becouse a gentleman
offers to help a lady when she is carring things and he is not.
plachoya

>
>Good ladies and all who read this,
>
>Sorry, but I've got to step in here. I don't know how many times I've
>offered to help a lady carry something only to be rebuffed. I've had
>actually had women get offended that I offered to help, telling me that
>they
>were *quite* capable of carrying something without a man's assistance.
>Which
>is it? Should we offer or not? How can we tell that you want help or don't?
>Pendaran


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