[Ansteorra] Question 11/11

[Lou Burgin]

When I first started in the SCA, I was pretty quiet and shy and would let
things go without saying anything.  After time, certain good behavior was
afforded me because of being a "Lady", or a "Baroness" that I have always
thought was correct behavior but would never insist on it in the Mundane
world.  The SCA has given me the courage and strength to expect and require
the good behavior in the mundane world that I get in the "Dream" world.  I
also encourage this speaking out to everyone (especially girls) if they are
not comfortable with a particular behavior.  You will only get the respect
that you demand and deserve. And yes I think that crude, vulgar behavior
shows a lack of respect.  So in closing, I think that both life and persona
have both grown into a whole person over the years, but the clothes are the
most significant difference.    AmberLea

May the hinges on the doors to friendship never become rusty.
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From: "L T" <ldeerslayer at yahoo.com>
To: <ansteorra at ansteorra.org>
Sent: Monday, November 11, 2002 6:01 PM
Subject: [Ansteorra] Question 11/11


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To you, are your actions and personna in the SCA seperate from your everyday
existance. Meaning do you hold a different standard of behaviour and
interaction in the SCA than you do with people in other parts of your life?

I ask this because there are several people whom I  have interacted with who
I have seen be very manipulative, controlling, and have been dishonest,
underhanded  and destructive in respect to their actions in the SCA (they
seem to see all their interactions with the SCA as personna play)...but when
seeing them outside an SCA context they expect me to still trust them and
see them as friends...I just want to know if this is a "norm"

Lorraine



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