[Sca-cooks] What would you advise?

[Philippa Alderton]

--- Gorgeous Muiredach <muiredach at bmee.net> wrote:

> Well, I happen to think that you must be at least
> willing to work it
> out.   As I said very recently to someone in a shire
> nearby me:
> "A community that exclude even one of its members is
> no community at all".
> This was said after they basically refused to
> examine the building of a
> ramp for me to get in Court/Feast.  But the basic
> issue remains similar.
> Though it works both ways, *she* has to be willing
> too, and not only that
> her viewpoint is the only one.

Now here, love, is the crux of the problem. Asking for
a ramp for handicapped access is one thing- that is a
permanent item which, in time, will accomodate more
than just you. The difference is that you were willing
to work out a solution- you didn't use emotional
blackmail to try to convince the folks to tear the
building down or move the site ;-)

> The sooner you sit and talk, the better.

Agreed. If she's young, as Beautiful said, she may
simply be immature enough not to realize what she's
doing. Application of the clue bat is necessary- force
used is up to you, depending on her response, and your
perception of what the right thing is to do, and how
willing you are to do it. If she's doing this over
onions now, who knows where else she's using the same
tactics. Time to stop it is now.

Phlip

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