[Sca-cooks] Betan earrings

[Siegfried Heydrich]

    Dunno - the only ones who ever hit on me that I notice are ones who
haven't been laid since the last Star Trek convention, and tend to have the
subtlety of a Mack truck. I think part of it is that I'm totally blind in
that area. As a result, all my flirtations are quite platonic, and I regard
them as sallies of wit only, as I've never found anyone who ever actually
takes it beyond that point. Or just may not have recognized the signals.
    Of course, I don't think it really matters, as I believe you only get
one True Love per lifetime, and I've used mine up already. Some kind of
signal system would be nice, but like everything else, you'd get people
cruising under false colors in a trice . . .

    Sieggy


-----Original Message-----


>>great.... now all i need is a big light up sign that says
>>"yes, they are flirting" or "no, they are just being friendly"
>
>I need that too. I'm evidently totally clueless. And I far prefer to err on
>the side of not taking advantage and gaining a reputation as a letcher.
>
>>i have "turned down" several people who told me they were not asking.. and
>>ended up having to apologize for "snubbing" a few who apparently WERE
>>asking.
>
>I've never done either. I've just not picked up on the signals until much
>later.
>Or figured that she would never really be interested in a lout like me. I
>think that's
>why most of my girlfriends have been rather aggressive types that go after
>what
>they want. I'd never belive they liked me otherwise.
>
>I'm also rather shy about making any kind of real advances or letting
>someone
>I like know it.
>
>>i am afraid i am one of the clueless.......
>
>Join the club.
>I guess I could use some earrings, too.
>
>Got any that say, "Single, crumpets welcome?"
>
>>Kirsten
>
>Big Dumb Gunthar
>(Actually, the thought of cute young groupies sounds appealing but I'd
>rather
>have someone I want to spend my life with.)