[Sca-cooks] Re: [SCA-Herbalist] Required courses for RUM degrees

[M. Traber]

Jadwiga Zajaczkowa / Jenne Heise wrote:

> Well, as for me, I didn't get many pats on the back for a long time in the 
> SCA because I was a nasty bitch. Well, I've tried to improve the parts of 
> my behavior that actually hurt people, and I'm staying away from the 
> people I don't care for much when I can, but the truth is that I was still 
> a nasty bitch when I got the mid-level arts award and the mid-level 
> service award. 
> 

Well, FWIW, I was considered incredibly sweet, would give people the 
garb I made for myself, pay for people to attend pennsic or events for 
minimal expectations, provide crash space for people, work in kitchens 
washing dishes or cooking, do silly things like schlep a kiln, supplies 
and spend 3 weeks doing hands on classes in period ceramics forms on my 
own nickle with no expectations other than having fun and I still got 
gestunk because I complained about being asked if I spit or swallow 
because 'it is just the way he is, live with it.'

I am tired of seeing a couple of friends of mine get bohica'd repeatedly 
for several years [for one going on 5 years now] because they have a few 
members of certain households pissed at them much in the same manner 
that happened to me. I am tired of all the freaking politics. I have 
literally grinned and bore it for the past 5 years until I literally 
don't give a cr at p any more.

As a matter of fact, screw it. I am out of here.