[Sca-cooks] Re: [SCA-Herbalist] Required courses for RUM degrees

[Sue Clemenger]

Bohica'd? Local reference?
--maire, who's seen people come and go, but never left, herself (and 
yeah, I've got stories, too....anybody who lives long enough does)

M. Traber wrote:

> Jadwiga Zajaczkowa / Jenne Heise wrote:
> 
>> Well, as for me, I didn't get many pats on the back for a long time in 
>> the SCA because I was a nasty bitch. Well, I've tried to improve the 
>> parts of my behavior that actually hurt people, and I'm staying away 
>> from the people I don't care for much when I can, but the truth is 
>> that I was still a nasty bitch when I got the mid-level arts award and 
>> the mid-level service award.
> 
> 
> Well, FWIW, I was considered incredibly sweet, would give people the 
> garb I made for myself, pay for people to attend pennsic or events for 
> minimal expectations, provide crash space for people, work in kitchens 
> washing dishes or cooking, do silly things like schlep a kiln, supplies 
> and spend 3 weeks doing hands on classes in period ceramics forms on my 
> own nickle with no expectations other than having fun and I still got 
> gestunk because I complained about being asked if I spit or swallow 
> because 'it is just the way he is, live with it.'
> 
> I am tired of seeing a couple of friends of mine get bohica'd repeatedly 
> for several years [for one going on 5 years now] because they have a few 
> members of certain households pissed at them much in the same manner 
> that happened to me. I am tired of all the freaking politics. I have 
> literally grinned and bore it for the past 5 years until I literally 
> don't give a cr at p any more.
> 
> As a matter of fact, screw it. I am out of here.
> 
> 
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